Passionate About Inspiring Others

I have worked in education for over twenty years and hold a few degrees, including an M.Ed. in Human Sexuality. I taught at Rutgers University, the Collegiate School for Boys, and the Branson School before embarking on the kind of  teaching I felt students really needed: the kind that could foster sexual ethics and sexual citizenship.

When I'm not teaching, I'm deeply involved in communities and organizations striving to foster a world free of violence and injustice. I Co-Chair the Board of Center for Domestic Peace, an organization dedicated to ending domestic violence in Marin and beyond. I serve on the Board of FreedomFwd, which seeks to improve systems in San Francisco so that commercial sexual exploitation of youth is less likely and less harmful. I also serve on the Board of the Gaines-Jones Education Foundation, which creates educational opportunities for African American youth. In 2014, I co founded Asha Rising, a nonprofit that provides permanent housing for elderly women who have experienced stigma, poverty, homelessness, and gender-based violence after aging out of the sex industry. I also co founded Diasporadics, New York City's first arts and activism festival for marginalized voices in the South Asian diaspora.  Prior to that, I was a community organizer and Board member of Desh Pradesh, which was  committed to providing a community platform for marginalized voices within the South Asian diaspora, namely the voices of queer and gender variant folk, women, artists, people living with HIV and AIDS, refugees, and people living with disabilities. I speak widely on sexual literacy, sexual ethics, consent, and ending gender-based violence. I was also recently awarded the Humanitarian Award by AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists).

I’ve long been immersed in a world of teaching others how to navigate stories about gender, race, power, sexuality, colonization, communication, consent, and relationships.  A lifelong learner, I’m constantly thinking about these issues, reading about them, and, as I work with various school communities, parents, and students, tailoring my approach so that I can meet people  where they are. 

My writing (nonfiction and fiction) has appeared in various publications including The Atlantic, The New York Times, Buzzfeed (Community Forum), ThreePennyReview, Glimmer Train, South Asia Review, and Crab Orchard Review.